We all know we need to get over the past relationship to enjoy the new one. But what if your present boyfriend is still attached to his formal girlfriend? Today we will give you tips on how to evaluate this situation.
1) GIVE IT TIME
If the break up is less than half a year, your boyfriend might still have superficial feelings for her. It’s nothing to worry yourself about. But you need to be more cautious if it has been for a long period and he is still attached to her.
2) ANALYZE THE FEELING
It’s a different thing to feel platonic pity for someone than to have longings to be in a relationship with them. Check to see how much they invest with you. Are you a priority in his life? These questions will help you evaluate what is really going on.
3) IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN FAKE
There are some other cases in which he projects the formal love to you. It’s fast and quick and exciting but sooner or later, one or both of you will realize its all fake.
4) TALK IT OUT
It might be that he doesn’t know how much his relationship with her is affecting your relationship or, he doesn’t know how much he is still attached. Either way talking about it carefully can help him clarify his feelings.
If you have to let them go at the end remember it just wasn’t meant to be. At the right time, you will find true love.